I have a very very hard-head, stubborn-stubborn dog that when the ground is wet, she will just stand there in the yard starring at us, having a literal stare down, but refuses to relieve herself, she stands there with her whole body visibly shivering so badly her whole body shakes and it is uncomfortable to even watch, but she will stand there often up to 15-20 minutes and still wont do anything, if we take the time to wait out there that long in the elements with her, literally, waiting for us to give up or give in whichever you view it and just go back inside, yet we have to put her back in the small cubby area, utile she uses the yard, the next time we walk out and not only watch her from the porch or door, but no two of our 3 dogs are so stubborn that we have to watch them to make sure they use the yard, if not they will just go on the porch, because they HATE going to the yard especially if it is wet understandably, but if we do not walk them out and stay there watching the Whole time they sneak off and won't go, My one dog would rather keep getting yelled, shiver for a good deal of time, often waiting my mom or I out, than simply getting it over with quick and painlessly by, "doing it" it gets very frustrating
I wanted to attach the video clip of her shivering, with this blog in mind based upon her, but I had problems attaching it so a picture will have to do, of her avoiding doing what was requested of her
I have witnessed several such children at the elementary school, where it is my best guess that it is not all uncontrollable or side effect of a disability, but wanting some sense of control or power I'd assume and the only way they can do that is putting off working and staying off task, but it is a struggle between the wills, and gets tiring combatting great stubbornness on a daily basis, but it's the only power or self defense mechanism some have
What might you be too stubborn about? How can you make life a little easier on someone by purposefully being less stubborn, and letting someone else get their way a little more than putting up a fight just for the sake of it?? and it's really not such a big deal to not get your way 'all' or most of the time??